It’s fine to want to be her friend; people can still be friends after a relationship. However, if she doesn’t want it then there’s nothing you can do.

You should definitely minimize contact with this person in whatever ways you can.

That’s probably the right move. It sounds like it’s her and not you, so there isn’t much you can do. Good luck next time!

It’s better know as emotional abuse.

It’s not even just that she doesn’t like you, it’s that you deserve better. Even if she did like you, it wouldn’t be a good idea to get with her. Find someone who will treat you right.

There are nice men out there, but you have to separate them from the herd in order to enjoy their company

Omg, this is so real. Back when I was trying to be a guy I would only be able to have fun with dudes when they weren’t with other dudes. As soon as other men showed up, they became so boring and annoying to be around; like the forgot how to hold a meaningful conversation.

I agree with the others. She was probably into you at least somewhat, but was also too emotionally immature or self repressed to handle it in a healthy way. Definitely not the type of person you’d want to be with.

Yes. Also, welcome to the darkrainbow side!

tbf, I’m not fully a lesbian, only primarily sapphic. I do relate to not thinking my “straight” attraction was straight, but when I was coming to terms with my gender identity, my sexual orientation was the last thing on my mind.

When I discovered I was a woman

Absolute legend

“Ponzi” scheme? The straights once again taking credit for our innovations smh

omg same! I get guilty because I know I should be feeling amazing but it’s like my brain just can’t exist in the now.

Not all shitty behavior is pathological, so while you can call her behavior narcissistic in the casual sense, you can’t call her a pathological narcissist. Even if someone is pathological, you’re not gonna be able to determine that easily even with expertise. This goes for most DSM classifications people try to apply to others to describe their behavior.

Moderating isn’t easy, which is why I try not to do more than I can handle. It’s why I didn’t want to be in charge of the new 196 when that whole debacle happened. As much as some I see some communities where I could step in to help, I already have more than enough on my plate. Whenever others take on more than they can reasonably juggle, I worry about what balls they’ll drop when it inevitably proves to be too much.

By the time I left, I was only logging in to read ShaveYourEyebrows comics

!foxnews@lemmy.sdf.org

tbf, they didn’t specify what “lady parts” entailed. Lady penis is not the same as man penis, nor is man vagina the same as lady vagina.

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