so my new partner (im poly and my new partner is genderfluid mtf) is mentally ill just like me. we are both lgbtq (she is androsexual and heteroflexible so im an exception bc im technically fem enby) and i am pan. she also self harms a lot, threatens to take her life, and does drugs from her older friends but so far only weed. she is 14 and a freshman. how can i help her???

i am also 14 and a freshman btw, she turns 15 in july and me this month.