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Not exactly a tutorial, but I use SNI routing + TLS passthrough with Caddy-L4 (and previously Traefik), and wrote/collect some stuff about it over the years:
https://theorangeone.net/posts/wireguard-haproxy-gateway/. From TheOrangeOne, involves TCP routing with HAProxy and plain WireGuard. Most likely what you want.
https://muoi.me/~stratself/articles/tailscale-notes/#the-public-website. Me using Traefik + Tailscale to route TCP to the backend
https://jdedev.org/projects/tophomelabwork/docs/solutions/traefik/traefik/. Another Traefik example
https://muoi.me/~stratself/articles/the-cost-of-tls-passthrough/#scenario-1-passthrough-encryption. Same but for Caddy-L4 and involves SNI routing. If you want plain TCP routing just do
{ layer4 { tcp/:443 { tcp/127.0.0.1:538 } } }