• Fedegenerate@fedinsfw.app
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    13 hours ago

    I learned long ago whether someone told me they were pan or bi, it took absolutely zero effort on my part to accept and agree with them.

    Sure you’re bi/pan, but are you a unicorn, because my fiancée and I really like your vibe.

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        7 hours ago

        I don’t really know how guy unicorns are targeted? Are they? I’ve only heard of the term unicorn being applied to women. But, I’m adjacent to the space at best.

        Has cucking, becoming more fashionable, increased couples targeting bulls the same way unicorns are? As in toxically.

        I suppose it’s different, a unicorn is expected to attended to both partners equally. Whereas, a bull isn’t really.

        This is both off topic, and a Wendy’s. I don’t expect an answer.

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      8 hours ago

      We don’t exist just to satisfy hetero couple’s threesome fantasies.

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        I didn’t think the /s was necessary… I thought the “we like your vibe” was cliche unicorn hunter speak. I even used the word ‘unicorn’.

        Anyways I fully agree, hence how I framed it. I fully apologise if I came off as anything other than tongue in cheek.

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          The fact that is sarcasm doesn’t change the fact that your comment suggests that threesomes are the thing you talk about when talking about bi/pan people.

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            Ah well, allow me to subvert that suggestion.

            Expressly and unequivocally, threesomes are not something I particularly talk about when talking to bi/pan people.

            Certainly not any more than anyone else. It isn’t something I voluntarily suggest we do, it’s not something I expressly ask about. Some of my friends have had threesomes, and some of those are bi/pan. So it’s not something I’ve not talked about, it’s just not the first thing that comes to mind.