• fatcat@discuss.tchncs.de
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    9 hours ago

    I’m still wondering if anyone is using them. I know quite a few people with all kind of sexual orientations as preferences and no one ever used them once. But maybe that’s just how it’s around here?

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      Lesbian here, meh I’ll accept the antibiotics if need be.

      Like, they’re a good idea, but imo sex is for passion, not wisdom

      • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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        5 hours ago

        yeah, my best protection against STDs was careful screening of partners. And if i liked them enough and they’d got one, well i better have been ready for it.

        now it’s monogamy, but like from my understanding most are manageable. Hell, only one out of the grampolycule was HIV positive if i remember right (they’ve all been gone… shit. it’s been too long I’ma go watch the Birdcage), and i’m pretty sure they weren’t celibate. just careful.