I am very shy and very MUCH in denial…

  • Fei@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    4 days ago

    I’m of course not familiar with your communication dynamics with your friends, but your message feels like you are gently saying you’re not interested. Saying you kinda like spending time with someone doesn’t feel like your heart is into a ‘more than friends’ relationship. Also, saying you’re spending time with someone because you don’t want them to be abandoned is very different than honestly sharing that spending time with them makes you feel happy and you very much enjoy their company.