Reads to me like she full-steam burst through one of your boundaries, you enforced the boundary (went offline), she felt hurt in the process and is now trying to inflict the same pain onto you by twisting everything that’s been said before into something that might hurt you back.
The fact, that she thinks, that she deserves an apology, after crossing your boundary and the behavior afterwards looks like an emotionally immature person trying to get back either a sense of control or pride.
My guess would be narcissism, but someone with the DSM-5 might be able to correct me. In any way, this isn’t your fault, you just tried to argue with someone, who wasn’t looking to get to a solution, but rather, trying to ‘win’.
Reads to me like she full-steam burst through one of your boundaries, you enforced the boundary (went offline), she felt hurt in the process and is now trying to inflict the same pain onto you by twisting everything that’s been said before into something that might hurt you back.
The fact, that she thinks, that she deserves an apology, after crossing your boundary and the behavior afterwards looks like an emotionally immature person trying to get back either a sense of control or pride.
My guess would be narcissism, but someone with the DSM-5 might be able to correct me. In any way, this isn’t your fault, you just tried to argue with someone, who wasn’t looking to get to a solution, but rather, trying to ‘win’.