Goddess of madness and rebirth. Excrucian Strategist. Capitalised They/Them. Anarcho-Antireal theorist.

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Cake day: January 14th, 2026

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  • It sounds like she wanted your situationship to be a lot more close and giving than you did. You just wanted to both be having a good time and doing things you’d be independently happy to. But it seems like she was in love with you, enjoyed spending time with you regardless of whether she liked the activity itself, and expected the same of you.

    The fact that her love drove her to lie to you and feel entitled to a kind of relationship you hadn’t discussed and didn’t want is messed up. But I think it would make you feel a bit better to hear I don’t think there was a time she wasn’t having fun with you when doing your fetishes. I think she was having fun because of you, and lying that it was because of the fetish. She wanted you to have fun because of her company and lie for the sake of love the same way she did. And she was too emotionally disconnected to clearly explain her wants and ask for consent.

    I hope that helps you make sense of the situation.