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Cake day: March 5th, 2025

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  • Several weeks. Usually I shower before leaving the house so when I was too depressed and anxious to leave the house I felt no reason to take one. But I don’t shower as much as most people in general. Once a week maybe unless I’m sweaty or dirty. I also brush my teeth inconsistently. But I’ve never had a cavity, fungal infection or anything else hygiene related anywhere on my body. I also don’t stink in case you’re wondering 😅 I disinfect my pits and use deodorant daily, I always check myself and my clothes and I also ask friends sometimes to be sure.


  • I’m also struggling a lot with that. I’ve found that doing a little each day gets the job done eventually. Idk about you, I kinda have the energy to keep an apartment clean but not always to get it clean when it’s already feral. So if it’s gotten to that point I just try to clean a mess and a half for every mess I make.

    I also used to tell myself it’s because of my parents. Which is true but they’re not gonna swing by and sweep the floor. It genuinely only takes a few tries to learn how to clean effectively as an adult and there are tutorials on youtube. And it does get much easier once you don’t have to think about every step.




  • I use Lemmy and Bluesky since I’m banned on Reddit and it’s no longer worth bothering with ban evasion. I’m also testing Mastodon through Pachli because Bluesky has kinda started going on my nerves with all the luke warm “Dems need to save the US” takes. I wisth there was a federated platform for short form vertical videos like tiktok. It’s probably not feasible as a non profit project but something inside of me is still chasing the high of early pandemic social media.










  • That’s how people frame it here to. “Why would I want to go to that 3rd world country anyway.” Personally I think it sucks. Like yeah there’s a lot of valid criticism regarding the US, even before factoring in the current regime situation. But feelings aside it’s a vast and diverse country with a lot of beautiful nature and interesting history (despite what people say) and I’d really like to go some day. Especially Washington, California, Colorado, Texas and Louisiana all fascinate me in unique ways. Alas, it’ll be some years before thinking about that vacation makes sense again.