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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • Don’t worry too much about it is my take.

    Yes, you’re almost certainly going to find people who are enherently discusted by that. I’ve met women who’d just say “…eww”. I’ve also met women who’d be like “bro saaame!” People vary in opinion, and I find it unlikely that if you were in a relationship with another girl they’d be the former (though I wouldn’t know because I’m a guy and never been in a relationship; someone else would have to chime in on this point).

    I think it’s important to also consider why people look down on guys for being obsessed with tits&ass. Usually, the implication I get is that the issue is feeling like you’re being used for sexual gratification, not the emphasis on sexuality. An unsolicited DM praising your nipples doesn’t exactly make you feel like you’ve got good looking nipples. I think if you’re clear about not “using” their sexual characteristics and just like them in the same way you’d like flowers or whatever, then at that point most of the “weirdness” is that it’s non-sexual. Personally I find that to be more of a quirky kind of weird than a gross kind of weird.