Hi. I will admit, we’re pretty young. So, I saw the post about some guy having trouble with his girlfriend, and I thought of our relationship.

My girlfriend always wants to text me, like every 2 seconds, and gets worried if I don’t respond within a minute.

She’s actually very sweet and caring, but she too has trouble paying attention to what I have to say because of her ADHD.

I’m pretty much asexual, I believe, or on the ace spectrum. I probably fit a microlabel (aegosexual, aceflux, etc.) of that, but IDK. I also have trouble saying no, but I’m trying to learn to assert myself.

The thing I feel bad about is that because I have trouble saying no, she probably thinks I’m just a very sexual person. I do enjoy experimenting with sex, but thanks to my low sex drive, not that much.

And it’s more like I just get feelings down there than actually wanting sex.

As much as I love her, though, she’s also pretty… emotional? And because of that, she often blames herself or gets really upset during the times I did say no.