I can speak to this from the opposite end, and I hope my perspective can help a little. When I was younger I used to be the same way - I was overly sexual and I would take a decline personally - as if I wasn’t wanted anymore or wasn’t loved. It was 100% not the case and it took a frank conversation from my S.O. and a bit of growing up to realize sexual intimacy doesn’t eclipse other forms of it, and it is actually disrespectful to who I was purporting to love by suggesting that it did with my reactions to it.
It took communication and a will to change on my part. And I was wrong.
I can speak to this from the opposite end, and I hope my perspective can help a little. When I was younger I used to be the same way - I was overly sexual and I would take a decline personally - as if I wasn’t wanted anymore or wasn’t loved. It was 100% not the case and it took a frank conversation from my S.O. and a bit of growing up to realize sexual intimacy doesn’t eclipse other forms of it, and it is actually disrespectful to who I was purporting to love by suggesting that it did with my reactions to it.
It took communication and a will to change on my part. And I was wrong.