Thank you, this is a very kind comment, and it made me smile :)

This logic makes no sense, but I feel like I’m not allowed to be as trans/nonbinary because my nonbinary friend told me I am not. I guess I see them as more of an authority on the matter since they’re actually nonbinary? I do not know. This is not something I believe for anyone else, just myself (I would personally never tell someone that they are not nonbinary because that’s not something I can tell or decide.)

That’s actually a bit comforting, thanks. :)

No one has actually accused me of being transphobic, this is all just my own fear.