I just asked my online crush if she wanted to date when we got to know each other more and at first she said no because I was too heavy for her (160 lbs, she is 90, she doesn’t want much of a weight difference and doesn’t like chubby x skinny). Next, she kept playfully teasing me about my crush on her after I confessed and said “Oh, you really want me?” and then said she would think about dating me if I really did like her. My friends all say that’s a definite no and that she won’t say yes and all that…
I would be rather careful around this one, not accepting you for your body is a big red flag imo, who’s to say this is the only thing they are going to have a problem with?
Fair enough, thank you
Not wanting a weight difference sounds like bs. Sounds like a red flag to me.
Real
Oh sister, no. The whole “maybe I’ll date you if you beg” thing is a huge red flag - I’m sorry, but your crush is not a nice person and beat avoided.
I’m sorry.
It’s okay, she likes someone else anyway
You are worth so much more than that. Please respect yourself and don’t fall into this clearly manipulative relationship.
Thankfully, she likes someone else. Thank youuu
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 run away from that situation bc she’s already trying to emotionally manipulate you
Thank youuu
She’s playing games and you’re always going to be the loser here. Cut and run before that red flag turns to something scarier.
Thanks so much!
Its a hard pill to swallow but nothing good can come from this - others have already addressed why but please do hear their warnings
Thank you, I will
